Written by April, Contributing Writer
“Let no debt remain outstanding except to love each other.” Romans 13:8
- Hold hands while you fall asleep
- Pray for him
- Tell him how much you respect him
- Keep a list of things he likes to do – when possible do something from that list together
- Send him a love letter at work
- Buy some satin sheets and surprise him with … well, you know.
- Fix his favorite meal
- Brag on him in front of others, even if he is not around
- Laugh together
- Buy or make him his favorite treat
- Bring him with you to shop for some lingerie. Let him pick something out for you. Buy it.
- Keep his confidences
- Tell him he is your best friend
- Shave your legs
- Play a sport with him
- Write a note to his mom thanking her for raising such a wonderful son
- Hug him for no reason
- Be hospitable to his friends
- Compliment him on his abilities as a husband and/or father
- Look through old photos of when you first met, dated or were married
- Leave a love note for him under his windshield wiper while he is at work
- Initiate sex
- Support him in things he takes on, even if it’s a risk
- Write out a list of 10 things you love about your husband and leave it somewhere he will notice it
- Have inside jokes
- Buy him a new item of clothing and surprise him by wearing it and nothing else
- Serve him soup when he is sick
- Respectfully communicate with him
- Don’t belittle him, especially in front of others (your children included)
- Make a reservation at a hotel or bed & breakfast. Kidnap him for the weekend
- Subscribe him to a special interest magazine he enjoys
- Surprise him with a big, juicy kiss
- Let him sleep in on one of his days off
- Tell him you believe in him
- Encourage him to have a Guys Night Out with some of his buddies
- Stop what you are doing and look into his eyes when he is talking to you
- Give him a back rub
- Play some of your favorite games together
- Tell your kids how much you love their father
- Give him 10 minutes to himself when he gets home from work
- Take interest in a sport or hobby of his. Let him teach you about it
- Send him a romantic text or email
- Hold hands while you are riding in the car
- Thank him for how much he helps you around the house (yard work, taking out the trash, fixing the car, changing diapers, etc)
- When on a date, don’t bring up finances or the kids
- Buy him a tool or gadget he has been eyeing
- Watch a movie together
- Ask him about what he has going on at work, and listen to him
- Flirt with him
- Thank him for providing for your family
Let’s love our husbands extravagantly!
Her passions are photography, herbal remedies, frugal living and the outdoors.
Great post! Haha, I love #14. 😉
It’s so hard to forget to really slow down and love your spouse in the hustle and bustles of life, kids, work, etc.
My husband and I have been starting to do little things for each other again and it is making a world of a difference.
Thanks for your comment… I need to work on #14 too since it’s winter lol!
Great list. I’d imagine each item would have a different significance depending on the season of marriage you’re in. For me, #23 is appropriate right now… Thanks for the food for thought! (and action, too)
Very true Lori. I was at #23 last year but when it’s God’s plan there isn’t risk but I know it’s HARD, praying for ya!
So many great ideas, I’m encouraged by this. Sometimes we overlook obvious ways we could bless our husbands but this list is pretty complete. Thanks so much!
Mary
Holla, girl, this is a great list! Number eight has been my secret to a happy marriage for years. Now if only I could be a little more diligent about number 14…
I definitely needed this list. Things have been a little stagnant recently and the list was a great reminder to keep romance alive! 😀 Thanks for sharing!