Top 7 Benefits to Co-Sleeping with Your Baby

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Guest Post by Ashley of Live Essentially

Since Rachel just had her third bundle of joy a couple weeks ago, let’s talk babies and co-sleeping!

Co-sleeping is far from the norm in modern day parenting here in the United States. In fact it is frowned upon by those who don’t fully understand what it is and how to practice co-sleeping safely. So let’s get a good understanding of what co-sleeping is, how to practice it safely, and the many benefits of co-sleeping with your child.

What is co-sleeping?

Co-sleeping is the practice of a baby or child sleeping in the same bed or near the mother and father. Some people chose to use “co-sleepers” such as this one that go next to the bed as opposed to having the child sleep in the bed with them.

Is it Safe?

As long as co-sleeping is practiced safely, it is safe and beneficial for both you and baby. Follow these simple safety tips to practice safe co-sleeping.

  • Never sleep with your baby when you are under the influence of alcohol prescription medication which causes drowsiness
  • Take precaution to not let your baby roll off of the bed
  • Do not sleep on soft surfaces such as a waterbed
  • Put baby to sleep on their back
  • Keep clothing and blankets to a minimum, do not overheat baby
  • If you feel overly exhausted or do not wake easily, consider using a co-sleeper on the side of the bed as opposed to have baby in bed with you

What are the benefits?

  1. Building a Bond- Most bonds between mother and child come naturally, but co-sleeping enhances that bond, but offering comfort and cuddles to the baby and allowing mom to meet their needs quickly throughout the night.
  2. Makes Breastfeeding Easier- If you are a nursing mom, you can appreciate the convenience of having a baby right next to you and ready to eat, as opposed to getting out up and out of bed.
  3. Reduces the Risk of SIDS- That’s right! Most people think that co-sleeping increases the risk of SIDS, but in fact it is the opposite way around. Read more on “Why Babies Should Never Sleep Alone.”
  4. Eliminates the Cry it Out Method- The cry it out method is pretty common for most household, but there is a lot of debate about it and how it affects the child short and long term. When you co-sleep with your baby you are automatically eliminating the cry it out method or any of the negative effects that it may have.
  5. More Sleep for You- A baby who is co-sleeping with mom tend to startle less than those sleeping in a crib, meaning less times for you to wake up and comfort a startled baby in the middle of the night.
  6. Gives child a sense of security- Sleeping close to mom and dad gives baby a strong sense of security. They are comforted by your closeness and touch. Continuous co-sleeping throughout a child’s early years will create a sense of independence and certainty from the accumulated securities of their co-sleeping days.
  7. More time with baby- If you are a working mom and get to spend only a few hours before bed time with your baby, this is a great way to squeeze in some more time with your little one, even if their eyes are closed.

These are just a few of the many more benefits that both a parent and child experience from co-sleeping.

For more information and further readings check out:

Do you co-sleep with your children?

Ashlee is the owner/blogger of LiveEssentially.com. She is a wife, mother, massage therapist, and blogger. She is passionate about all things green and crunchy and writes to inspire others to live a natural happier and healthier life. Check her out on Facebook!

Comments

  1. Yes, I do co-sleep with my son and have been since he was born for the most part…I absolutely love it. He is now three years old, so I am getting lots of pressure to from others to get him into his own bed, but I am honestly still not in a rush. He has his own room and his own bed, and he knows he has an option…when he is ready I will support it, but I am not ready to force him to sleep on his own.

  2. I could not agree more! We co-slept with both of our boys (who are now preteens) and they are the best, happiest sleepers – never an issue with bedtime, because bedtime has always been a positive loving experience. Believe me, they will sleep on their own – they grow up so fast. But the wonderful bonds you form last a lifetime. And when Dad’s out of town, they fight over who gets to sleep in my room … still! I love it!! 🙂

  3. All 7 of your points are how I felt when my son was a baby. Matter of fact, he’s 5 now and though he starts out in his bed, he never makes it through the night in there. I don’t mind at all. He’s not going to be little forever.

  4. I would have said I didn’t co-sleep with my infants, but that would not have been true based on your definition. I had all my babies in the room with me when they were little. In the earliest days when we nursed frequently during the night, I had a cradle that was so close to the bed I could reach over and pick them up without getting out of bed. For me, it was just easier that way. I didn’t sleep with them in my bed, other than the times I fell asleep nursing to wake up later and find they were finished. Once they started sleeping through the night they went to their own room. Although my second son was an asthma child and he spent many nights sleeping on my chest as a toddler.

  5. I am in the TTC mode right now, and love reading all these tips and tricks, however I wonder about the other side of it also. Does co-sleeping foster a lack of independence? What about the relationship of the parents? If the child sleeps with them for so long what happens to their privacy and intimacy together? How do fathers take to this approach? Any advice or insight is appreciated! There is so much to learn going into this whole transition! Thanks!